Situation | Expected Behavior | Reason |
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Meeting New Couples | Introduce yourselves, be friendly, and ask about their interests and boundaries. | To establish comfort and consent before progressing. |
Attending Swinger Parties | Respect the party rules, participate at your comfort level, and engage politely. | To maintain a safe and enjoyable environment for everyone. |
Handling Rejections | Accept no graciously, do not press for reasons, and move on respectfully. | To respect personal boundaries and ensure continued positive interactions. |
During an Encounter | Communicate openly, ensure consent is ongoing, and respect any changing boundaries. | To ensure a positive and consensual experience for all involved. |
Discussing Experiences Afterwards | Engage in honest and supportive conversations to share feelings and feedback. | To enhance trust and understanding, fostering a stronger relationship. |
Leaving a Party or Event | Do so discreetly and respectfully, thanking the host or organizers as appropriate. | To show appreciation for the hospitality and maintain good relations within the community. |
Type | Description | Common Venues |
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Soft Swap | Engaging in non-penetrative activities with others. | Private homes, specific events |
Full Swap | Includes penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. | Swinger clubs, private parties |
Group Play | Sexual activity involving multiple participants at once. | Organized events, club nights |